About my servicesWHEN YOUR HEART CHOOSES THE UNREACHABLE
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Emotional Wellbeing & Healing Feature
Tuesday, 9 July, 2025 | Global Edition
Billeigh Irish | Holistic Advisor
LOVING SOMEONE YOU CANâT HAVE: THE BRAIN, THE HEART, AND THE HURT
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Falling in love with someone you canât be with is a painful paradox that many of us will face at least once in life.
The emotional weight of unrequited love can be deeply destabilizing, leaving you caught between longing and the need to let go.
Though we often speak of matters of the heart, modern science shows us that love is primarily generated in the brain.
The neurobiology of love helps explain why we sometimes feel intense connection with those who are emotionally unavailable, uninterested, or even harmful to us. In this light, it becomes evident that our brain is sometimes gaslighting our heart â feeding hope where none truly exists.
When love is not returned, we begin to search for answers: Why them? Why now? What about me? But the more useful question might be: What is truly for your highest good? Sometimes, the hardest truth to accept is that the person you once loved is no longer right for you â not because they are bad, but because they have changed, or you have.
Unrequited love is not only painful â itâs disorienting. You may find yourself obsessing over every interaction, pretending you feel nothing, all while isolating from friends and ignoring your own needs.
But love that causes suffering isn't love worth keeping alive at all costs. It's a signpost toward healing, not a sentence to emotional exile.
Healing begins by acknowledging the truth: they are unavailable.
No amount of effort can change someone else's readiness. You donât have to keep pretending. You donât even have to stay friends if itâs costing you peace.
This is where compartmentalization â the mindful separation of emotion from action â becomes a survival skill.
While suppressing emotions can be toxic, learning to manage and contain them in healthy ways can bring relief and clarity. It is okay to feel grief, disappointment, or anger. But you also deserve joy, connection, and a future built on mutual love.
So if youâre here reading this, still holding hope or hiding pain, I want you to know: itâs time to stop sacrificing your soul for someone else's absence.
You are allowed to choose yourself now.
And if youâre ready, I would be honoured to support you in navigating through this, and in rediscovering what is truly in your best interest.
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By Billeigh Irish
Holistic Advisor & Emotional Wellness Guide
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đ Have you ever loved someone you couldnât be with?
The ache of unreturned love can consume your thoughts, your energy, even your sense of self.
But healing is possible â and it starts by understanding what your heart truly deserves.
This article explores why we fall for the unavailable, the neuroscience behind it, and how to begin releasing the emotional grip.
If you're struggling with someone you can't have, this may be the reminder you need to choose yourself again.
âš Read now â and reach out if you're ready to let go and begin again.
â Billeigh Irish
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đ© Billeigh Irish is a Clairsentient Holistic Advisor and celestial correspondent offering guidance through spiritual and emotional insight.
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I work exclusively on Purple Garden, offering personalized sessions tailored to your specific situation.
From understanding someone's feelings and intentions to exploring career prospects or resolving family mattersâthis is your space to find direction.
What I Do
I am a Holistic Advisor, a Clairsentient, not a fortune teller, I don't predict the future.
I focus on the present and what actions can create the best outcome for you. My process is direct and straightforward, with Spiritâs guidance helping to reveal what you need to hearânot simply what you want to hear.
This requires a direct question; I do not offer general readings. Together, we can untangle confusion, address challenges, and navigate changes to empower you toward your goals.
Would you like insight into a current or past relationship, a potential connection, or a situationship? Curious about someone's feelings or intentions? Need clarity on career dynamics or co-worker challenges? Whatever the concern, I recommend a 20-minute reading to delve deep and provide thorough understanding and options for moving forward.
My Approach
Through Astronomy and Moon phases, I offer a unique connection to your timeline. By identifying your guiding star and Zodiac constellation, I can outline scenarios and best-case timing using my original Astronomy Timeframe method.
I require the first name and full date of birth (or approximate age) of anyone involved in your inquiry to focus on their energy.
While Spiritâs guidance is vast, there are limitations; I cannot provide details like the appearance, occupation, or exact location of a future partner.
Instead, I explore characteristics, timelines, and how certain paths may unfold. What Spirit chooses to share is always authentic, and my style remains truly unique.
As an experienced medium, I do not push to prove messages from loved onesâit is up to them to bring forth genuine communication.
Mediumship readings are conducted thoughtfully via telephone, never rushed.
Setting Boundaries for Clarity
Because I am sentient, I focus on one specific question at a time. This ensures I provide my utmost attention and insight without distraction.
I ask for patience if I request you to limit additional questions while addressing your initial inquiry.
For clarity post-reading, messaging is available to refine understandingânot to add new questions or extend the session.
Respecting these boundaries allows me to serve you effectively while maintaining meaningful connections.
Special Rates and Services
I offer live video readings, typically priced at $9.99 per minute, with occasional specials at $6.
99 and even flash sales at $4.99 per minute. Chat and talk readings are available at $9.99 per minute. Keep an eye out for deals to make the most of your experience.
Ask the Oracle $5.99 pm Live Video Reading.
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For new clients, I provide Tryoutsâa brief overview with one question on one topic.
If youâre are a current regular client, feel free to use all your tryouts to explore our connection further.
Currently due to health issues I am no longer able to provide live video readings. However I am available on chat and talk.
I have discontinued rush 3-minute readings. While they provide only a brief overview, live videos offer better clarity and depth, making them a superior option.
A Unique Offering
With a Diploma in Psychology, Holistic Counseling, Coupleâs and Family Therapy, and more, my expertise spans love, career, family dynamics, and spiritual guidance.
My current studies include PTSD and Emotional Freedom Techniques, deepening my ability to navigate complex challenges with you.
As an animal empath, my fur companionsâCharlie the Psychic Pug and twin puppies Luna and Jiminâbring their energy into every reading, aligning me with Spirit and offering insight into animal communication.
If your petâs behavior concerns you, bring them into your reading (live settings required).
Experience the beauty of my studio, filled with light and color. I offer Aura readings, guided meditations, and moreâcreating an experience that is vibrant, uplifting, and uniquely yours.
Letâs uncover the truth, embrace change, and empower you to live your best path forward. Together, we will create clarity and illuminate possibilities. Are you ready? đ
About meWelcome to a Space of Clarity, Warmth, and Insight
I am here to guide you through lifeâs questions with honesty, support, and no-nonsense insight.
Whether youâre seeking clarity about relationships, career, family, or personal challenges, I am committed to helping you navigate what matters most with warmth, focus, and integrity.
You are welcome to reach out anytime after our session for clarification.
Communication and mutual respect are the foundation of our connection. If something feels unclear or unresolved, I invite you to speak with me openly, either during or after your reading. Your trust means the world to me, and my priority is always to ensure you feel heard and supported.
Ethics are the cornerstone of my practice. I do not delve into intimate details of someone elseâs life or relationship without their permission. My purpose is to provide clarity, not to overstep personal boundaries.
Instead, I focus on delivering meaningful spiritual insights that empower you to make informed decisions while respecting all individuals involved.
There are also specific topics that I am unable to read on due to ethical and regulatory guidelines:
Legal Matters: This includes divorces and marriages, whether yours or someone elseâs.
While I can look into relationship dynamics and potential outcomes, I cannot provide legal perspectives or predictions tied to legal requirements.
Financial and Business Advice: I cannot guide you on financial investments, business decisions, or their outcomes.
However, I can explore themes of prosperity, abundance, and opportunities that may lie ahead.
Health and Pregnancy: Readings related to health, medical issues, pregnancy, or paternity are strictly prohibited.
While I do not address physical health concerns, I can help with emotional or spiritual aspects surrounding these issues.
Questions Involving Minors: For ethical reasons, I cannot provide readings about or for individuals under the age of 18.
Job Interviews: Outcomes of job interviews are off-limits due to their legal and financial nature. However, I am happy to explore potential career opportunities and the energetic aspects surrounding your professional path.
Exam or Application Results: I cannot address outcomes of academic or institutional processes, though I can help explore how you might align with your goals.
General Questions: As I am sentient, I require specific questions to focus the energy of our session and provide the best clarity possible.
For those seeking readings involving multiple individuals, please let me know at the start of your session. Iâll need to approach each personâs energy separately to provide thorough insights, and I deeply appreciate your understanding and respect for this process.
My Approach and Services
As a Holistic Advisor, my focus is on examining current situations and exploring the best paths forward. Together, we navigate lifeâs complexities to uncover clarity and create a vision for the road ahead.
While destiny is not set in stone, I help you identify actionable insights that align with your highest good.